Her ex-boyfriend was black, and even when we were dating I'd make fun about the "size" thing. Still she always said she was ok with how mine was. Usually after we're intimate, she'll hang out in the spare bedroom to watch tv, I just wasn't sure why - now I know!
Yeah, I'm a little hurt she's got it hidden there.. part of me is embarrassed she needs "more". The thing is HUGE. I can't sleep thinking about what I should do. Like, should I confront her about it? Or just forget it and play dumb? Where did she buy it from?? We share all our credit card statements, I think I'd have picked it up if she got it online. Sure, we'd kid around about her maybe seeing her ex if I allowed her to, am I supposed to be grateful it's just a toy instead of an affair? So my questions are:
Guys: what would you do if you were me?
Ladies:any thoughts on why you'd hide something like that from your boyfriend or spouse, instead of just being open about it? "