My descent to Hades came via a man who turned out to be a multiple life living secretly married and secretly bisexual psychopathic sex addict, who entered innocent peoples' lives on a regular basis with the intent to deceive and betray. An incubus in human form. To this day, the Lovely Libran sister calls him Beelzebub, a play upon his real name.
While that all sounds harshly alienating, the truth is he isn't pure evil. Many would disagree, but even as I laid wounded by him, it was clear that only someone so thoroughly broken themselves could go on to hurt others the way he did.